Who Are You !
We know that people are influenced by their past experiences and the Five sources : Parents, School, Environment, Media, Self.. These influence our current personalities, beliefs, behaviours and decisions.
People grow up searching for meaning.. for precense in this life..
But that unreal Self-image and Identity that they have (influenced badly by the five sources).. Lead them to choose life that it's not their..
They keep fighting from inside even if they don't show because they don't want to admit that they are lost or they don't want people see them as they are failing..
Then with time.. They just decide to take something and take care of it.. Just to feel they found something they are doing and they are not lost.. Identity stage
Some are living miserably while having goals.. Not aware that those goals are not theirs
Or also, they're still suffering unconsciously from their past that they are not aware of..
Someone is in the field of medicine but not focusing on it.. Why ?
Because of his past insecurities.. He's still trying to secure his needs and forgeting his Main Goal. He lost many years due to misfocusing on his main goal.
Post-Adolescents are forcing themselves that they are doing the right thing.. Why ?
Because they got sick from others telling them what to do.. They take it personnally that they don't know how to manage their lives. So they just hold on something to feel independent, confiden and responsible.
Other, may go in a field that wasn't his real choice.. His degree or mark forced and narrowed his choices.. Like choosing to study mechanic because of your degree only allows that and not allowing to study what you really fancy, that needed higher degree.
Putting your life on something wasn't your first choice is terrifying..
Imaging you're living out of pain and your personality, beliefs, behaviors and decisions are influenced by your parents' beliefs and their educational style.. Your teachers.. Your friends and the moment you have experienced with them.. Maybe also with the media and what you see on tv and social media.. The way you treat yourself – pity, judging, blaming, hating, critising and comparing – Or – Lovely, improving, motivating, believing and trusting yourself to grow each day -
Are you thinking now that maybe your life is influenced negativelly by your past ?
If you answer NO, and you felt something strange inside you trying to reject that thought away from your mind.. That's probably the Escape Strategy from your brain Buddy !
Your Brain has gained already confidence and identity after a long fight in Post-Adolescent.. So Now it's hard to accept that you maybe living something isn't meant for you..
You'd say what.. "Does that mean that I didn't manage my decisions and choices well ?
Am I again lost ? Was that all fake ?"
Don't worry.. You're about to make a life decision now Okay, friend 😀
If you decide not to open this file and ignore it.. Means that you're escaping
You may say "But what if I'm in the right path !"
I would say "Okay, but it's better to make sure if you're in the right path or not"
If you say "Ehmm.. Alright, I'm ready for that. Let's figure out the truth.. I'm always open for new discoveries Hum"
I would say "You're the Bravest.. Most people are so weak to face their truth"
But sadly, they don't know that their Truth is the Real and Happiest life they could have.. Because they will live as God has made them for real.. And all what they've been through
were life's lessons in order to make today's decision and learn from that.. not escaping it.✨
Till Now.. You're still with me and with yourself.. Keep that Eagerness to know more about yourself 💗
PERFECT ! You're making it wow 👊
Next Chapter : What's influencing me not to live My Real Life